Part of the reason why there are a lot of upset and uptight people on this planet is because they’re sexually repressed. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that Sigmund Freud was absolutely correct. I’m not saying that at all because a lot of his shit got debunked and got debunked quickly.

With that said, there is a lot to be said about the fact that if you repress a very important part of your personhood, you should not be surprised when that repression manifests itself in truly fucked up ways in other areas of your life. Maybe the reason why you have a tough time trusting people is because you have really fucked up ideas about sex. Maybe the reason why you have such low self-confidence is you’ve never really allowed yourself to accept yourself sexually.

Maybe you haven’t even explored your body with your own two fingers. Do you see where I’m coming from (if not then check this out)? Your body, while not necessarily a John Mayer song, can be a wonderland but not in a physical way. It can be a springboard to better honesty and a sense that there are no limits as far as your ability to comprehend goes. Do you see where I’m coming from?

You have to start at the most basic realization that there’s nothing to be afraid of as far as sex is concerned. Look at it straight on. There’s a reason why you fear sex. Somebody put the fucked up idea in your head. Maybe it’s time to confront those ideas and move past them.